HELLO, world!

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How do you even begin to blog when three jam-packed, filled-to-the-brim, larger-than-life months have passed by? I’ve heard the expression that you need to “eat an elephant one bite at a time” but I always found that metaphor to be particularly grotesque. So… word by word, bird by bird… here we go!

Owen is now two and Drew is now four. I have some draft “Dear Drew” and “Dear Owen” letters filed away in my computer, waiting to be paired with some favorite snapshots from the past year. However, I managed to fill my computer to the brim and am catching up on my triple back-up system before I can free up enough space for the computer to even function. So with the birthday letters and oh-my-gosh-they’re-getting-so-old post on the back burner, that leaves the everyday stuff!

(Yes, triple back-up. I’m a total nerd that uses two external hard drives–one in daily sync with the computer, another that is cumulative of all files and kept in a fireproof safe–and an unlimited space SmugMug account. I could never live with the Guilt with a capital G if I somehow managed to lose family photos!)

Soccer

Drew started a five-week soccer league and loves it. During the first practice, he was a bit nervous. He was focusing SO hard on not touching the ball with his hands when the ball seemed to say “PICK ME UP! THROW ME!” With all this concentration on the rules and a watchful eye on his coach, Drew didn’t see much action. I hoped he wouldn’t notice and that he was having fun. However, nothing gets by him. ;) He walked over to my blanket after practice and said, “How come I only got to try to kick a goal a few times? I think I need to be faster next week so I can get more chances.”

The following week, you could see his determination from the sidelines. He kept his focus and stayed right with the ball. I cried a few happy tears when he scored his first goal. I laughed and cheered when he scored his second goal (on his own team- ha!). Tonight was his fourth game and he even scored two goals. I am SO proud of him for working so hard to stay with the ball and focus on the game. I have to say that being a soccer mom is a total blast, and I hope that he continues to enjoy soccer nights as much as I do! (Not to mention his dad and grandparents and brother that have cheered him on at various points!)

Cabin

My grandma and grandpa sold their lake home, which was their full-time home that had separate living space in the walkout basement that served as our family’s ‘cabin.’ As much as I will miss our family’s occasional trips to the lake, I truly am so happy for them. They had been working on selling for a long time, and now can focus on getting settled in a lower maintenance place. Plus, this saves a few extra weekends for our beloved camping trips! Andy and I made it up north to help a few weeks ago and I bid a farewell to the lake life. I will miss it, but like I said– it’s a good thing for G&G. Me with Grandma at Easter, modeling our beautiful “amamal” necklaces.

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Summer Plans

I really had my heart set on a road trip to Oregon this summer to visit my baby sister. I had scoured U.S. maps and picked a beautiful route that would bring us to Glacier on the way there and through Yellowstone on the way home. We took two consecutive weeks of vacation at the same time (MIRACLE). And then we crunched the numbers and really didn’t feel like there was a place in the budget this year. Boo. :( I’m trying to look on the bright side and not think about how much I miss my baby sister! Fortunately, we’ll be seeing her for a very special trip home about a year from now when she gets hitched. She’s been gone for around eight or nine months and we’re getting better at employing a mix of email, text, FaceTime, and good ol’ phone calls to keep in touch. The boys are so thrilled about Amy’s engagement news and have already started calling her fiance “Uncle Rob.” In fact, he often makes it into their prayers long before “mommy” or “daddy”!

Longest Winter EVER.

It seriously snowed for six months straight. It was interminable. We were SO done with it. Whine. Blah. You get the idea. We spent several afternoons and evenings spreading snow into the culdesac to try to get it to melt faster. Desperate times, desperate measures.

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Drew’s Story

Drew told me a story a few weeks ago while I typed. The story is entitled “Drew’s Farm,” and here’s what he shared. It may be important to note that his little buddy had just lost a family dog, so I apologize if you find the, eh.. theme of this story a bit odd. Ha!

“Once upon a time it was Drew’s farm. There was one baby chick in the forest. His name was Speedy because when you picked him up he speeded away. The mother went rushing after him because the dad was dead and could not be in the family anymore. And then a daddy horse galloped by. Then a horse and the mother and baby were dead and the dad, so they needed a mom. Here was the dad. The baby horse ran as fast as it could. Then he jumped over a net. Then there was another net that was even higher and he got stuck and could not get out but he was still alive. Then some sheep came by going to the farm. Three sheep came running by then three more then one more. then another cow came by and that’s all.”

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Mr. Owen continues to be his easy-going self with some comedic antics and stubborn meltdowns thrown in. I think someone sent him a memo that two-year-olds are supposed to throw fits, and he can arch his back and roll around screaming with the best of them. However for the most part he is blessedly redirect-able. In the following picture I believe that his second giant bowl of mac-and-cheese was not coming quickly enough-

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We managed to get him to part ways with the Nuk, so I can’t help but realize that he really isn’t a baby anymore. Especially when you hear him talk, it is absolutely crystal clear that he is growing up FAST.

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And because I’ve truly been such an awful blogger, I’ll pick a few favorite photos from each month and consider this boring update ‘complete.’

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Random Musings of a Sleep-Deprived but Generally Cheerful Mama

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Drew last night referred to his humidifier as a “formid-ifier.” So adorable. I must incorporate into my own vocabulary immediately. Many of Drew’s mispronunciations have disappeared without much fanfare… I guess that’s exactly how children grow up right before your very eyes. Thankfully, he still mispronounces flamingo as “flingolo.” I will most definitely cry the day he figures that one out!

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Within 24 hours of his creation, this is what has become of Lurkey the snowman. By the time we left for work and school on Monday, morning, she was leaning terribly. By Monday afternoon, this:

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The following weekend, we created a snow unicorn. He lasted maybe four or five days before Andy called me to the front door late one night. “Uh, Kels? I think the snow unicorn went to the big Lisa Frank folder in the sky.” We are practically operating a snow creature cemetery in the front yard.

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A few months ago, Owen picked up this bear that had been given to him by the EMTs when he had pneumonia in  August. The bear had been ignored for months, but suddenly he couldn’t put it down. Nor should he. I love how he twists his hand into the bear’s t-shirt. His interests have expanded to other clothed bears (Winnie the Pooh for example), but this remains his favorite. He calls him “Beaw.” A few nights ago around 3:00 in the morning he started crying in his room. As I stumbled in, I saw him crouching over a crumpled brown sweater and gingerly lifting it from the ground, wailing, “Noooooooooooooo! Beaw!” In his 3:00 a.m. logic, bear had morphed into a sweater, and this was the most tragic thing to befall him in his young life. I tucked him back in bed and hooked Beaw under his arm. Owen said, “I feel bettew” and drifted back to sleep.

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A few weeks ago I gently rubbed Owen’s belly to wake him up from a deep sleep. After he slowly sat up, he suddenly shouted, “I’m ready for donuts!!” Fast forward to this morning. I pull into the gas station and Owen shouted out, “Donut please!” This child has a mild donut obsession, dontcha think?

In the dead of winter, color is so important. I surround myself with it. A prism of happiness. Do you ever read whatever? It’s basically a love letter to God and rainbows. And I love it. (I initially had to look past the title of the blog. I hate the word “whatever.”)
It was -14 degrees when the kids and I left the house one day last week. After work I bought Drew a swimsuit. I needed to remember the good things that are to come. I needed to hold these good things in my hands.
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A few Fridays ago, the boys and I met up with Becky and Isaac for the “Gym Jam” at Bierman Field. This is the indoor practice field for Gopher athletics, and the event was a fundraiser for the Lab School, which is another school for kids that’s affiliated with the U of M. It’s pretty much the best idea for a January fundraiser… ever. Open up a space with nice green bouncy turf, add about 50 playground balls, and let the kids RUN RUN RUN. Wide open spaces for jumping, throwing, running, spinning, and tumbling is exactly what these boys (and their parents) needed after being shut in during a full week of sub-zero temperatures. We will definitely be going again next year.
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Andy’s much-liked Facebook status from last week: “Today at daycare, Drew noticed that he and his 30-something female teacher both had on grey shirts, blue t-shirts and and jeans on. He then proceeded to drop his pants and say ‘I’m wearing red underwear, can I see yours?’”
I love how the following photo really captures ‘everyday life’ at our house. Andy is wearing a necklace that Drew had just made–all the blue beads plus some animals. Drew and Owen are reading books to  Daddy while he eats a late dinner after work. Scout is begging for a scrap. Colorful and imperfect and US. :)
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Drew has a CRAZY long attention span. Last weekend, we played “lion” for about 2.5 hours without taking a break. This was our den. When we finally moved on to a new game, it was to play “tiger.” Ha! Random Musings Adventure Mama 11

Mmmmm… SNOW!

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We had a fast-and-furious snow shower this afternoon. As much as I am a SUMMER person, it’s good to see the pine branches drooping with puffy white snow and to see the brown winter grass disappear under a fresh layer of WINTER. The kids received a little wooden sleigh from Santa and they hadn’t even used it yet–tragic! Well, fear not. We were outside before you could say Jack Frost.

The neighbors were out to play, too! Oldest to youngest and left to right: Carter (5), Drew (3), Layla (2), Owen (1)

The neighbors were out to play, too! Oldest to youngest and left to right: Carter (5), Drew (3), Layla (2), Owen (1)

One more item checked off our winter bucket list! Drew named her Lurkey.

One more item checked off our winter bucket list! Drew named her Lurkey.

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What a joy. :)

What a joy. :)

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Of course, when brother starts eating snow, there's no stopping him.

Of course, when brother starts eating snow, there’s no stopping him.

Selfie with a prime lens-- you have to accept the double chin to get the camera to focus!

Selfie with a prime lens– you have to accept the double chin to get the camera to focus!

The star ornament eyes are creepy, but we didn't have any charcoal and the garden rocks were frozen to the ground.

The star ornament eyes are creepy, but we didn’t have any charcoal and the garden rocks were frozen to the ground.

Drew ate the tip of the carrot nose.

Drew ate the tip of the carrot nose.

What-- you don't wear footy pajamas under your snowpants?

What– you don’t wear footy pajamas under your snowpants?

Rosy cheeks!

Rosy cheeks!

Carnival Night

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We are in the midst of what has inadvertently become an annual “bust the winter blues” staycation. Andy’s been off all week, and I joined him starting on Wednesday. Opting to save money instead, we set aside an idea to visit Wisconsin Dells and decided to stick close to home. However, that doesn’t mean we have to live life as usual, does it?

The other day, Drew requested corn dogs for dinner. He’d recently had them from the kids’ menu at a restaurant and has been mildly obsessed lately. And before I even calculated the potential complications, I blurted out, “LET’S HAVE A CARNIVAL TONIGHT!!!!”

So one trip to the thrift store later, we had a carnival. My Dad came over to enjoy the games. I of course did a bit of Googling and saw the cutest carnival parties EVER, but in the end I’m glad I decided not to craft adorable backdrops and decor. The whole spontaneous nature was kept intact by keeping it low-key. Other than the time we spent at the thrift store, the whole thing was pulled together in the time that the frozen corn dogs cooked in the oven. :) If you’re feeling especially inspired though, Martha Stewart’s carnival party was SO cute: http://www.marthastewart.com/275410/how-to-throw-a-kids-carnival-party/@center/276964/60-days-summer.

Anyway, here’s the carnival. (Another bonus of vacation days? Time to edit video!)

Weekend Wrap-Up

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Between two full-time jobs and general keeping-up-with-life, our world feels so. damn. busy. I don’t know how we are going to manage as the kids get older and have…. gulp… activities. How are we going to make that happen?! A worry for another day. All this is to say, there are lots of important, special people in our life whom we do NOT see often enough. Luckily, a three-day-weekend presented that oh-so-special bonus day that’s perfect for reconnecting.

On Saturday, we got to reconnect with my friend Sarah and her husband, Nolan, and their two daughters, Nora (just under 2) and Elsa (3 weeks). It was wonderful meeting Elsa and watching the older kids play together so nicely. Of course, in my haste to get the boys out the door on my own (why is that so difficult by the way?), I forgot my camera and I have no photographic evidence of the beautiful Elsa Joan. Suffice it to say that she’s breathtaking and affectionate and makes the cutest coos and sighs.

On Sunday, I actually made it to a social function with some coworkers. This NEVER happens, but I was able to sneak away after the boys were in bed last night and join friends for a drink to celebrate my friend Norma’s birthday.

THEN, my aunt Mary and her kids stopped by this afternoon for lunch.It was sooo000 good to see them. It’s been harder to keep up with my extended family, especially with Andy’s weekend work schedule and in this case–hockey schedules for all three cousins!

For their visit, my cousins brought along the newest member of their family, Jax the Dutch rabbit! It was funny to watch Drew and Owen; they’ve definitely started to showboat when company comes over. Drew started off by wearing a track through the house to show off his “cheetah running skills.” Owen, not to be outdone, simply rolled around on the floor like a puppy until his hair stood on end from the static. When the talent show subsided, they trotted out various stuffed animals to parade past the guests. I fondly remember that instant hyperactivity that comes when company comes over. :)

Here is the crew, from left to right: Sonja, Drew, Anders, Owen, Margot.


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Owen took an immediate shining to Sonja and anytime I approached the duo, I was told to “STOP!” Apparently my presence spoiled the fun or something. ;)

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Jax was the true star of the show, and both boys were smitten with the quiet, cuddly little guy.

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Scout was pretty curious and gave Jax some major sniffing upon Jax’s arrival, but then set about ignoring him… until he started hopping around. I narrowly grabbed Scout’s collar and held him back when a chase broke out. Mary and Margot said Jax ran to a corner and jumped about four feet in the air looking for an escape–they both continued to marvel at how high he’d jumped! For the remainder of the visit, anytime that Jax was out of the cage, we sent Scout outside or upstairs. Having a bunny in the house definitely awoke his animal instincts. Jax actually lives with two Golden Retrievers, but they’ve obviously been trained to not eat the bunny!

It’s been a lovely long weekend. Andy worked Saturday and Sunday but is now enjoying some days off. I get to join him later in the week and we’re relishing a much-needed break.

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Here’s a couple of randoms from the weekend… the photo of Drew drinking water is nothing special, but I had to grab my camera because he just looked so OLD sitting on the high stool having a glass of water.

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“Momma, there’s a hippo outside.”

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Owen called me to the window yesterday to announce there was a hippo outside. As the cold wind kicked up outside, the grayish brown tarp covering the neighbor’s composting bins started flapping in the wind. A single strap about two-thirds of the way up divided the ballooning tarp into two sections.

“Now hippo RUNNIN.”

I’ll be damned if it didn’t look /exactly/ like a galloping hippo. The boys are now on a constant lookout for African animals in the backyard, but so far this has been the only sighting.

Happy January Safari Day!

Thursday, January 17, 2013: Home Sweet Home!

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GRETA IS HOME!!!!!!!!!!

In our posts up to this point, we have attempted to effectively communicate the information that we wished to share while remaining fairly anecdotal with Greta's progress. To, perhaps, better illustrate what our lives have been like since September 9, 2012, below is a list of numerical facts - enjoy!

  • 130 - days in NICU (that's 4 months and 1 week, or 18 weeks and 3 days, or 0.36 years)

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I've mentioned Jill, Elliot, and Baby Greta previously, and am TOO excited to share this special news. Greta is HOME! Here is their post--it's a pretty amazing story of strength and stamina.